International-Womens-Day / अंतर्राष्ट्रीय महिला दिवस / Antarraashtreey Mahila Divas
Aaj ahalabhor se hee dekh raha hoon chahunor mahila divas kee badhaee vaalee phesabukee takhtee lataka liya gaya hai ,adhikaansh vaise mitron ke dvaara bhee jo vyaktigat jeevan mein vo nahin chaahate ya karate hain jo vo dikhana ya dikhaana chaah rahe hain.
ye takhtee latakaakar khud ko pragatisheel aur striyon ke svatantrata aur sammaan ke lie khud ko bahut chintit aur sensitiv saabit karane ka jo ek phaishan chal pada hai vo badee ajeeb sthiti utpann kar raha hai. vaise log jo bilakul bhee nahin chaahate ki mahilaen us darje mein aayen jahaan vo aana chaahatee hai, unhonne bhee apane gale mein samaajavaadee (mahilaon ke sandarbh mein) takhtee daalakar khud ko bhaagatee huee bheed ka hissa bana liya hai.
meree ek mitr aaj mujhe bata rahee thee ki “mujhe sabase jyaada gussa tab aata hai jab ye purush hamaare svatantrata kee baat karate hain. ye svatantrata kee baat karana hee saabit karata hai ki ve aaj bhee yahee sochate hain ki ham aaj bhee paratantr hai. jo paratantr (haalaanki usane gulaam shabd prayog kiya tha) hai use hee na svatantr hone kee jarurat hai, ham log to hain hee svatantr.”
usakee aisee baate sunakar main bahut khush hua. man to samajhie kee kulaanche maarane laga. ekadam sahee baat bolee. are bhaee aap ye sochana aur bolana hee chhod deejie ki mahilaon ko svatantrata aur adhikaar dilaana hai. asal mein kya hai ki agar aap sochane vaalee kriya ko thoda viraam denge tabhee aap kuchh saarthak kaam karenge. aap to saahab umr gavaan dete hain sirph sochane mein. cheejen to aapakee, aapake kriya mein aatee hee nahin hai kabhee.
mere khyaal se striyon kee jo sabase badee dushman hai ya yoon kahen ki unake laiph ka jo sabase bada vilen hai vo ye hai ki vo aashrit hona ya rahana chaahatee hai. ye aashrit hokar rahane se hee unakee maanasikata mein ye thonk ke ghusa diya jaata hai ki tumhaara harek kaam purushon se hokar hee gujarata hai. aur ye baat un chhotee bachchiyon ke bheje mein ghusaane ka kaam jo karatee hai vo hai ek doosaree stree jo kee usakee maan ya maan jaisee hee post vaalee hotee hai.
mainne kaee baar dekha hai ki pita to khoob unmukt rahana aur rakhana chaahata hai betiyon ko lekin maan beech mein aakar in bachchiyon ko zamaane bhar ka theka apane hee sar pe uthaane vaalee ladakiyaan aur phir ye ladakiyaan kab isee sthiti se gujaratee huee khud ko tipikal aur sanskaaree mahila saabit karate karate umr guzaar detee hain pata hee nahin chalata hai.
aaj jyaadaatar log aapako seminaaree baaten karate mil jaayenge. jabaki inake halak mein jhaankiye thoda maheen hokar to dikhega ki jyaadaatar takhtee latakaane vaale log vyaktigat jeevan mein khud apane ulat hain. lekin isaka ye katee matalab nahin hai ki sab vaise hee hain. kuchh log hain jo jenyoon hai. aur jo asalee (maarke vaalee) log hain vo dhindhora nahin peetate hain kisee khaas din ko. vo roj jeete hain apane bachchiyon aur apane parivaar/samaaj ke mahilaon ke samuchit aur dharaataleey sudhaar aur vikaas ke lie. seedha sa to hisaab hai ki saaree baaton kee shuruaat agar ham khud apane ghar se karen to jyaada achchha hai. aur yahee “achchha hona” hamen achchhaee se bhare maahaul mein parivartit kar dega. mujhe kaifee aazamee kee ek pankti yaad aa rahee hai jo ki aap gar na bhee ijaajat denge to bhee sunaoonga aur vo ye hai ki-
“banake misaal ubharana hai tujhe,
uth meree jaan, mere hee saath chalana hai tujhe”.
गुंजनश्री
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